tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4393512822627120580.post1214149062764893350..comments2023-08-01T05:26:06.539-05:00Comments on Unicorn Bell: Dear Mad WriterHuntresshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08155372788872245758noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4393512822627120580.post-1307598859558323192016-03-30T04:48:17.656-05:002016-03-30T04:48:17.656-05:00Yes, of course. It's great advice, but the tem...Yes, of course. It's great advice, but the temptation is so strong to defend oneself against unfair comments — particularly when they're badly written (he-he.)J. Arlene Culinerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17119807329258865306noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4393512822627120580.post-19533442436680921352016-03-29T01:30:47.286-05:002016-03-29T01:30:47.286-05:00It makes me angry when writers attack other writer...It makes me angry when writers attack other writers' choice of genre. We see this a lot when literary writers attack those who write genre fiction, but genre writers have also been known to turn their noses up at other genre writers.<br /><br />We're all on the same team, damn it!<br /><br />I must admit, I have responded to agents' rejections to thank them when they've read a full and given me significant feedback. Sometimes they don't respond, but more often than not it's resulted in a nice conversation...even a revise and resubmit request.J.H. Moncrieffhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18045467689291025137noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4393512822627120580.post-5634581638892643252016-03-26T09:25:52.603-05:002016-03-26T09:25:52.603-05:00On a Facebook group, in a discussion about book co...On a Facebook group, in a discussion about book covers, I asked if they could determine whether my book cover for Wilder Mage was professional or not.<br /><br />Big mistake. I'm still recovering from rude remarks. I commented that we all have our different tastes but holy cats, they didn't want to hear it. Their opinion was right and i was wrong. <br />I said all things are subjective especially opinions and ended up ignoring the nastiness.<br /><br />One guy was outraged that I didn't love his pic of a mermaid being impaled on a fishhook. Gah.<br />To each his own. but I can't believe how much it affected me. Still.Huntresshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08155372788872245758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4393512822627120580.post-75601094941334007632016-03-25T19:19:46.872-05:002016-03-25T19:19:46.872-05:00A long time ago, I was taught that anger was just ...A long time ago, I was taught that anger was just fear projected outward. So, when something makes me so angry I'm fuming, I try to take a step back and figure out where the fear is coming from. That usually dispels much of the emotion.Liz A.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16531953467834426316noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4393512822627120580.post-84066677491786921242016-03-25T17:17:22.985-05:002016-03-25T17:17:22.985-05:00@Yolanda, precisely. :) We all need to learn to mo...@Yolanda, precisely. :) We all need to learn to move on and let this go. Chrys Feyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11955009490266358041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4393512822627120580.post-91672098985177937242016-03-25T15:03:58.917-05:002016-03-25T15:03:58.917-05:00All great advice. Never take it personally, writin...All great advice. Never take it personally, writing and the like or dislike of it is all subjective. Just learn from it and move on!<br />Hi, Chrys!Yolanda Renéehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09085436784133103221noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4393512822627120580.post-40221615631238266702016-03-25T14:16:44.737-05:002016-03-25T14:16:44.737-05:00@Medeia, it does get nasty on the Internet.
@Patr...@Medeia, it does get nasty on the Internet.<br /><br />@Patricia, sometimes I get cranky too. Until I sit back and realize what would help my story and what is just a load of bologna. ;)<br /><br />@Lidy, you're absolutely right! That's a great Harper Lee quote too. Chrys Feyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11955009490266358041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4393512822627120580.post-46079510108856950862016-03-25T13:26:18.493-05:002016-03-25T13:26:18.493-05:00Great suggestions Chrys. When faced with such situ...Great suggestions Chrys. When faced with such situations, it's best to turn the other cheek and keep on walking. Being combative will only hurt you. Harper Lee said it best, "I would advise anyone who aspires to a writing career that before developing his talent he would be wise to develop a thick hide."Lidyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04185947128989933152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4393512822627120580.post-14637626335007972082016-03-25T13:25:59.084-05:002016-03-25T13:25:59.084-05:00When I'm going through beta notes, there's...When I'm going through beta notes, there's usually a point where I start getting cranky at the suggestions and comments. That tends to mean it's time for me to take a break and when I come back, I'm not as bothered.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4393512822627120580.post-69364130549430660182016-03-25T13:06:41.208-05:002016-03-25T13:06:41.208-05:00I agree on all of these. With #3, I've seen so...I agree on all of these. With #3, I've seen some horrible online situations between authors and reviewers. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4393512822627120580.post-76903151978092057242016-03-25T12:04:57.679-05:002016-03-25T12:04:57.679-05:00@Jeffrey, don'y be sorry for a long reply. :)
...@Jeffrey, don'y be sorry for a long reply. :)<br /><br />Yes, hundreds of people can feel one way about one thing and one could feel different. Or there could be hundreds who love it and hundred who hate it. We're all so different that not everything is going to be liked by everyone.<br /><br />Someone reviewed Ghost of Death and said she only read the beginning then stopped because she found it to be a cliche. And she didn't read anymore. That hurt me because I thought that if she had given it a chance, her mind could've changed. Also, everyone else who reviewed it said the premise was intriguing and they had never come across anything like it before.Chrys Feyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11955009490266358041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4393512822627120580.post-26712039987872845922016-03-25T11:59:07.442-05:002016-03-25T11:59:07.442-05:00All good suggestions. Nothing good ever comes from...All good suggestions. Nothing good ever comes from trying to be combative to a critique. It will only make them firmer in their believes. It's the old, "I shout the loudest, therefore I'm right" viewpoint. Why give anyone more fuel to add to their fire?<br /><br />I like your thoughts on rejection too. It truly can be applied to any form of rejection. Something you just have to let things go. I had to learn early on, you can't please all of the people all of the time. I recall reading reviews of the film, "A Night To Remember" and out of all the shining comments, was one guy who said everyone was crazy and it was one of the worst films in history with wooden characters, bad acting, and no story outside of the ship sinking. I watched the film and disagreed with him 100% and felt like replying to his scathing remarks. Then I realized, he had his viewpoint and no matter how hard I could try, I was not going to make him think another way.<br /><br />As a writer, what hurts me most is when a person is unwilling to give something a try. But again, that's mostly my fault. If I can't make the story grip a person in the first sentence, it's likely my own fault.<br /><br />PS - Sorry for the long reply. Jeffrey Scotthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06973104877310669196noreply@blogger.com